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1月11日 ﾟ･✿.｡.:*最后挂电话的那个人才是最爱你的人*.:｡✿*
那个时候，女孩和男孩正处在恋爱的季节。每次打电话，两个人总要缠缠绵绵许久。 12月29日 ﾟ･✿.｡.:*喜欢一个人和爱一个人的区别 *.:｡✿*ﾟ
 12月26日 ﾟ･✿.｡.:*给所有恋爱中的女孩*.:｡✿*ﾟ１.不要经常去试探男人，更不要以分手做为威胁，当你经常给他这种 心理暗示，他的潜意识就会做好分手的打算。 ２.不要因为男人爱你就无限制的扩张自己的权利，不要干涉他的理想、 信仰和追求，不要自以为你比男人看的更远，他一定有些特质是你所不了解的。 ３.不要经常迟到，不要以为男人爱你他就应该有无限的耐心，一个人的 耐心是有限度的，耐心消磨完了，就该消磨爱。 ４．不要信奉这句话“你爱我，你就应该知道我想什么”，这完全是一句鬼话, 没有人会完全知道对方想什么。由于男人没有及时了解到你的想法， 而得出男人不爱你的结论是非常愚蠢的。５．不要经常叫男人陪你逛街，没有几个男人真正的喜欢逛街，强迫的最终结局就是反抗。 6．男人在热恋时为女孩子做的事情，不要指望他在以后的生活中一直持续下去， 聪明的女孩子通常都会打五折。７．不要因为他是你最亲近的人，就可以向他倾诉一切，你的不幸、痛苦、 委屈和牢骚都给他，将他做一个出气口，男人不是废品收购站， 当他确认他无法改变你的时候，他就只有逃离。8．不要去试图改变男人，不要想着他会在你的调教下成为你理想中优秀的男人， 去适应他比要改变他来的明智。９．不要对自己的魅力过分自信，没有几个男人会永久的承受出尔反尔， 没有几个男人可以招之即来挥之即去，除非，这个男人爱你别有动机。 １０．不要抓住男人的一次错误不放，并在每次争吵时喋喋不休的引用， 没有任何一个男人喜欢这样的女人。 １１．不要用这样的思路来指导你们的爱情——在男人的言行中寻找他不爱你的证据。 男人不能每时每刻将精力放在女人身上，他不可能注意到女人的每次暗示和不快。 当你用放大镜来寻找灰尘的时候，总会找的到，这样做，只是在指导男人，告诉他如何不爱你。１２．男人在思考的时候，尽量不要打扰他，他有时也需要独处的快乐， 那并不证明他不爱你。１３．男人和你再亲密，也不要随便伤害他的自尊，不论是在别人面前还是独处， 伤害就是伤害，不论他是否爱你。 １４．不要为男人过去的感情吃醋，也不要强迫男人告诉你，你比他以前 任何一个女友都好，事实就是事实，如果他违心的说你好，他反而会记住另一个事实。 １５．不要把自己的男人和别的男人比较，不要说他不如别人浪漫、不如别人体贴， 每一个人都是特殊的，爱的方式也不同，经常这样说会使爱成为一种心理负担。 １６．永远在男人面前保持一点神秘感，不要将自己的一切都百分之百的袒露给男人， 一个人吃的太饱是会厌恨食物的，而不会感激。 １７．不要指望用性来获得男人，这是捕获男人最不牢*的方式，因为爱情与肉体无关。 １８．爱情是一个磁场，而不是一个绳子，捆着他，不如吸引他。一个绳子会让 男人有挣脱的欲望，而一个磁场却能给男人自由的假相，和一个永恒的诱惑。 １９．不要指望一个男人无条件、象个奴隶一样的爱上你（那样的男人也不值得去爱）。 你要在爱情中充当一个至高无上的女皇，最终你会发现，你将跌的很惨。 ２０．请衡量一下，如果你们的爱情是你享受了更多的权利，而对方要尽更多的义务， 那你就要试着改变，爱情也适合经济学的规律，形成互赢的局面才会持久。 以上这二十条献给所有正在热恋的女子，听起来或许不顺耳，但却很真实， 当你们真正理解它们，你们就懂的如何去爱一个人了。 12月18日 ﾟ･✿.｡.:*幸福是因为有你的陪伴*.:｡✿*ﾟ
桌两边，坐了男人和女人。
12月16日 ﾟ･✿.｡.: MERRY CHRISTMAS ☜♥☞HAPPY NEW YEAR*.:｡✿*ﾟ MERRY CHRISTMAS AND HAPPY NEW YEAR!!
“圣诞节”这个名称是“基督彌撒”的缩写。彌撒是教会的
圣诞树： 据说有一位农民在一个风雪交加的圣诞夜里接待了一个饥 寒交迫的小孩，让他吃了一顿丰盛的圣诞晚餐，这个孩子告别时折了 一根杉树枝插在地上并祝福说：“年年此日，礼物满枝，留此美丽的 杉村，报答你的好意。”小孩走后，农民发现那树枝竟变成了一棵小 树，他才明白自己接待的原来是一位上帝的使者。这个故事就成为圣 诞树的来源。在西方，不论是否基督徒，过圣诞节时都要准备一棵圣 诞树，以增加节日的欢乐气氛。圣诞树一般是用杉柏之类的常绿树做 成，象征生命长存。树上装饰着各种灯烛、彩花、玩具、星星，挂上 各种圣诞礼物。圣诞之夜，人们围着圣诞树唱歌跳舞，尽情欢乐。
圣诞帽：
那是一顶红色帽子，据说晚上戴上睡觉除了睡得安稳和 有点暖外，第二天你还会发现在帽子里多了点心爱的人送的礼物。 在狂欢夜它更是全场的主角，无论你去到那个角落，都会看到各式 各样的红帽子，有的还有帽尖发亮的，有的是金光闪闪的。 圣诞袜：
从前有一个心地善良的贵族，他的妻子因病去逝， 抛下他和他的三个女儿。 这个贵族尝试了不少发明，都失败了，但也因此耗尽了 钱财，所以他们不得不搬到一家农舍里生活，他的女儿们也 只得亲自烧煮、缝纫和打扫。 一晃几年过去，女儿们陆续到了出嫁的年龄，父亲却 变得更加沮丧，因为他没钱给女儿们买嫁妆。 一天晚上，女儿们洗完衣服后将长统袜挂在壁炉前烘 干。圣人Nicholas知道了她们父亲的境况后，就在那天晚上， 来到她们的家门前。他从窗口看到一家人都已睡着了，同时 也注意到了女孩们的长统袜。随即，他从口袋里掏出三小包 黄金从烟囱上一个个投下去，刚好掉在女孩们的长统袜里。 第二天早上，女儿们醒来发现她们的长统袜里装满了 金子，足够供她们买嫁妆了。这个贵族也因此能亲眼看到他 的女儿们结婚，从此便过上了幸福快乐的生活。 后来，世界各地的孩子们都继承了悬挂圣诞袜的传统。 有些国家的孩子则有其它类似的风俗，如在法国，孩子们将鞋 子放在壁炉旁等等。 圣诞卡：
是祝贺圣诞及新年的贺卡，上面印着关于耶稣降生故事的 图画，以及“庆祝圣诞、新年快乐之类的祝愿的话. 平安夜：
平安夜，聖善夜， 萬暗中，光華射。 照著聖母也照著聖嬰， 多少慈祥也多少天真， 靜享天賜安眠， 靜享天賜安眠。 圣诞老人：
据说他原是小亚细亚每拉城的主教，名叫圣尼古拉， 死后被尊为圣徒，是一位身穿红袍、头戴红帽的白胡子老头。 每年圣诞节他驾着鹿拉的雪橇从北方面来，由烟囱进入各家， 把圣诞礼物装在袜子里挂在孩子们的床头上或火炉前。所以， 西方人过圣诞节时，父母把给孩子的圣诞礼物装在袜子里，圣 诞夜时挂在孩子们的床头上。第二天，孩子们醒来后的第一件 事就是在床头上寻找圣诞老人送来的礼物。如今，圣诞老人已 成为吉祥如意的象征，不仅是过圣诞节时不可缺少的人物，而 且也是欢庆新年时不可缺少的人物。 把你觉得感动的语言
送给朋友作为圣诞礼物！ 各位快行动起来吧！！
12月7日 ﾟ･✿.｡.:*星空(改篇)*.:｡✿*ﾟ那篇“星空”写着你的期盼， 这篇“星空”写着我的心情。。。 同一片星空，两颗不同的心，代表着不同地方且同时望着星空的我们。。。 曾经，我们的距离是那么的遥远，但是心是相近的。。。 可是。。。现在呢？
一片星空，一颗难过的心
夜晚的星空很美。。。 月儿陪伴着难过的我。。。 不是没人能听你诉说心事。。。 请回头看，那些被你拒于心门外的人。。。
看着有星星陪伴的月儿。。。 我身边又有谁陪伴着呢？ 我曾经的哥，我们曾经的约定，一起欣赏如此美景。。。 你。。。还记得吗？ 月儿安抚着难过人的心。。。
流星划过这片星空。。。 同时也划过我的心。。。 瞬间的绚丽，从你我眼前消失。。。 却停留于你我回忆中。。。 流星是否能带我回到过去？ 流星是否能实现我的愿望？ 我等待着你再次实现你说过得与我分享。。。 我们的约定。。。 我们的承诺。。。 我心里唯一的哥，你。。。  ﾟ･✿.｡.:*星空*.:｡✿*ﾟ星空
11月24日 ﾟ･✿.｡.:*飞进自己的世界*.:｡✿*ﾟ
11月22日 ﾟ･✿.｡.:*纸戒指*.:｡✿*ﾟ
一个女人和一个男人恋爱了。 11月19日 ﾟ･✿.｡.:* Life is all about loving*.:｡✿*ﾟ
Life is all about loving. How come? Because loving is the Kingdom of God, for God is love. All of us look for the Kingdom of God here and now. We can have it if we love. Truly love. Marriage is one area where we can make it into a Kingdom of God or a hell of a place here and now. It all depends on whether we have learned to love or not. There will always be disagreement and conflict in the home. Have we learned to rise above them and continue to grow in love? To be good at anything we have to spend time and effort studying and practising. To be loving we need to know what is love. We should not confuse love with the Hollywood-type-of movie love. What then is love? True love at its very basic is: Patient Do I accommodate his/her views, his idiosyncrasies and his ways of doing things? Can I overlook his shortcomings or faults? Will I be able to bear the blame and accusation? Can I accept him as he is? Kind Do I have a kind heart towards him/her? Do I strive to make him happy? Do I uplift his spirit when he is anxious or depressed? Am I tender hearted towards him? Forgiving Mother Teresa says, ?We must make our homes centers of compassion and forgive endlessly.? (?A Gift for God?, 18) Do I try to forgive endlessly at home? Do I harbor grudges over a long period of time? Do I hold on to resentment? Do I keep a record of wrongs he has done to be used against him? Do I try to forgive and forget? Self-giving Do I make self-sacrifice for him/her? Am I generous towards him? Can I give in to the relatively unimportant comments and arguments? Do I give up my preferences, goals, comfort, time and energy for him? Encouraging Am I always encouraging or am I critical towards him/her? Do I affirm him? Am I his cheer leader? Do I see his potential or do I see him as he is? Do I constantly find ways to praise him? Have we spent the time to cultivate and nurture these qualities or are we so engrossed with making a living that we don?t bother about such things? How then can we be good at loving? Ultimately relationship, not what we achieved or acquired, is what matters most in life. So why do we allow our relationships to get the short end of the stick? When our schedules become overloaded, we start skimming---cutting back on giving the time, energy, and attention that loving relationships require. What?s most important to us is replaced by what is most urgent. When life on earth is ending, we don?t surround ourselves with objects. What we want around us is people---people we love and have relationships with. In our final moments we all realize that relationships are what life is all about. Learning this truth sooner rather than later is wisdom. Why then wait until we are on our deathbed to figure out that nothing matters more than a loving relationship? The passages below are summarized from the book, ?Our Lady says: Love People? by Rev. Albert Joseph Mary Shamon. I.INTRODUCTION St Paul uses:
?Love is patient; love is kind.
Love is not pompous, it is not inflated. It is not rude, it does not seek its own interests, it is not quick-tempered, it does not brood over injury, it does not rejoice over wrongdoing but rejoices with the truth. It bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.? (1 Corinthians 13:4-7) Christian love is not an emotion, but is an act of the mind and the will. It is to love as God loves--UNCONDITIONALLY--and so to love the loveless and the unlovable. II. WHAT LOVE IS 1. makrothumE (Greek) = (passive) means to be longsuffering toward one, patient. It is directed to persons, not circumstances; it means bearing the shortcoming of others. ? Love is patient. ? Love is patient with people. ? Patience means accepting, bearing, enduring, suffering the slights, shortcoming, tantrums, injuries and hurts inflicted by people---suffering them for the love of God. ? True Christian patience is putting up with people just as God puts up with us. ? True Christian patience is an _expression of our love of God put into practice, here and now. 2. chrestEUetai = (active) means to behave kindly, be kind or merciful. ? Love is kind to people. ? Kindness shows itself by compassion, generosity, graciousness and friendliness. ? Kindness seeks to ease another?s pain or to soothe another?s anxieties, fears or anger. ? Kindness strives to make others happy. ? Kindness means to extend to others the glad hand of friendship, to share with them, to develop a genuine interest in them and their concerns. ? Kindness is good-will towards others and there is no happiness like that of a person whose heart is filled with good-will towards others. ? A kind word uplifts the down-hearted, the discouraged and the sad person. ? A kind heart is a generous heart. And generosity is kind: o when it is delicately done---done not to be seen by others o when it is unselfishly done--done not to seek anything in return o when it is sensitively done---done with consideration for the dignity and the feelings of the recipient. ? To treat someone kindly is to treat him as a kin (relative). ? One thing a kind person must avoid is criticism and jokes that hurt others. We are so ready to excuse ourselves so let us not be too ready to accuse others. ? Never fear to be kind as kindness will do us no harm, cause us no regrets and brings us no bitterness. ? Kindness makes us most like God and will make the world a better place to live in. III. WHAT LOVE IS NOT 1. zelOl means to strive after, to have zeal for one?s own status, ? Love envies no one. ? Love knows no envy. ? Love is not jealous of people. ? Envy or jealousy is a vice nobody likes; it is so unlovable that when a person has it, he tries to conceal it. ? Envy is sorrow about people?s good fortune. Instead of rejoicing at someone?s good fortune, envy weeps. ? Envy destroys our peace of mind and it makes us positively miserable. ? To detect envy or jealousy, just ask ourselves these questions:
2. perperEUetai means to boast or vaunt oneself, to be a braggart.
? Love is not pompous. ? Love is never boastful. ? Love does not brag. ? Love is no braggart. ? A braggart does not feel superior to others but he boasts that he is. ? Boasting can be hurtful and unkind since it diminishes others. 3. phusiOUtai means to puff up, make proud. ? Love is not inflated. ? Love is not conceited. ? Love is not inflated with its own importance. ? Love is not puffed up with pride. ? Pride resides in the heart. ? Pride is inflated egoism. ? Pride is extreme self love. ? Pride smacks of idolatry, for it idolizes self. ? A proud person brooks no criticism, true or untrue. ? Hell has no fury like a proud person scorned. 4. aschemonE means to behave unseemly. ? Love is not rude. ? Love does not behave gracelessly. ? Love does not behave unpresentably. ? Love is not arrogant or rude. ? A rude person does not treat a person as a human being but as a means to his own ends. ? A courteous person realizes the dignity of the human being and he simply treats each person as a person, as a child of God. ? Rudeness comes from insecurity or weakness, from selfishness or self-centeredness, from lack of training at home or in school. ? Being nice, kind, courteous, polite, good natured, considerate or thoughtful, especially to the weak and helpless, is a cultivated virtue. 5. zetEl means to seek for, seek after. ? Love does not seek its own interests. ? Love is never selfish. ? Love does not insist on its rights. ? Love does not seek its own advantages. ? Love does not insist on its own way. ? A self-seeker may want to serve God, but in his own way, not God?s way. ? A self-seeker pursues the adulation, praise and approbation of others. ? Signs that tell us whether or not we are self-seeking:
6. paroxUnetai means to provide, irritate, excite. ? Love is not quick-tempered. ? Love is not quick to take offence. ? Love never flies in a temper. ? Love is not easily irritated. ? Love is not resentful. ? A quick tempered person is one who is easily provoked to anger, one who has a short fuse. ? Hasty temper, impatient rebukes, sullen looks, harsh words, they never do any good! ? It took St Francis de Sales years to learn that the best answer to temper is silence. ? When Julius Caesar was provoked, he would repeat the entire Roman alphabet before he would speak as he has found that ?the greatest remedy for anger is delay.? ? A quick tempered person can be: Testy--flaring up at the least annoyance. Touchy---reacting vehemently when certain subjects are broached. Irrational---just flying into a rage or fury without reason. 7. loglzetai means to reckon, calculate, compute. ? Love does not brood over injuries. ? Love keeps no score of wrongs. ? Love does not store up the memory of any wrong it has received. ? Love does not calculate evil. ? Love does not record in memory every hurt to repay it later. ? It is foolish to carry hurts like gunnysack on our backs all through life. 8. adikla means a wrong, an offence, injustice and alethEla means truth. ? Love does not rejoice over wrongdoing but rejoices with the truth. ? Love does not gloat over other men?s sins. ? Love finds no pleasure in evil-doing. ? Love does not rejoice in injustice. ? There are human vultures who gloat over other?s shortcoming, who rejoice over the failures of others, who glorify the vices of lust and immorality. IV. WHAT LOVE DOES ALL THE TIME 1. stEgei means to cover closely, to fend off, keep off. ? Love bears all things. ? There is nothing love cannot face. ? Love can endure anything. ? Love keeps all confidences. ? Love tries to cover up for people. ? Love puts up with a lot from people just as God does with us. ? Love bears hurt in silence and conceals injuries as much as possible. ? There is no limit to love?s forbearance. 2. pistEUei means to believe, trust in, put faith in, confide in, rely on a person. ? Love believes all things. ? Love is completely trusting. ? Love has unshakeable faith in people?s goodness. ? Love believes in people all the time. People are always asking us to believe in them and to trust them. 3. elplzei means to hope, expect. ? Love hopes all things. ? Love never ceases to hope. ? Love always hopes for the best for people. ? Love does not give up on people, or give in to evil no matter how great, just as Jesus never gave up on people. 4. hupomEnei means to abide patiently, endure, stand one?s ground, stand firm, uphold, support, maintain. ? Love endures all things. ? Love bears everything with triumphant fortitude. ? Love is never dismayed by people, no matter what. ? Love puts up with people always, even to the very end of their lives, despite all their aberrations and vagaries. V. JESUS? EXAMPLES Jesus shows us by His own examples what Love is and entreats us, ?Come and follow Me.? Jesus is patient and kind. Jesus is never jealous, pompous, inflated, or rude. He never seeks His own interests. He is never quick tempered. He never broods over injuries done to Him. Jesus never rejoices over wrongdoing, but rejoices in the truth. Jesus never gives up on us, believes in the best in us all the time, hopes for the best for us continually and endures all our shortcomings, confident that to those who love God all things will work together unto good in the end. ---- ------ ----- From other Bible Version of 1 Corinthians 13:4-7 ?Love is always patient and kind; 1ove is never jealous; love is not boastful or conceited, it is never rude and never seeks its own advantage, it does not take offence or store up grievances. Love does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but finds its joy in the truth. It is always ready to make allowances, to trust, to hope and to endure whatever comes.? (1 Corinthians 13: 4-7 NJB) ?Love is patient and kind; it is not jealous or conceited or proud; Love is not ill-mannered or selfish or irritable; love does not keep a record of wrongs; love is not happy with evil, but is happy with the truth. Love never gives up; and its faith, hope, and patience never fail.? (1 Corinthians 13: 4-7 TEV) ?Love suffers long and is kind; love does not envy; love does not parade itself, is not puffed up; does not behave rudely, does not seek its own, is not provoked, thinks no evil; does not rejoice in iniquity, but rejoices in the truth; bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.? (1 Corinthians 13: 4-7 NKJV) ?Charity suffereth long, and is kind; charity envieth not; charity vaunteth not itself, is not puffed up. Doth not behave itself unseemly, seeketh not her own, is not easily provoked, thinketh no evil. Rejoiceth not in iniquity, but rejoiceth in the truth; Beareth all things, believeth all things, hopeth all things, endureth all things.? (1 Corinthians 13: 4-7 KJV) ?Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.? (1 Corinthians 13: 4-7 NIV) 11月18日 ﾟ･✿.｡.:Don't answer a cellphone while it's being charged...*.:｡✿*ﾟDon't answer a cellphone while it's being charged... Don't answer a cell phone while it is being CHARGED!! A few days ago, a person was recharging his cell phone at home. Just at that time a call came through and he attended to it; with the instrument still connected to the mains. After a few seconds electricity flowed into the cell phone unrestrained and the person was thrown to the ground with a heavy thud. His parents rushed into the room only to find him unconscious, with weak heartbeats and burnt fingers. He was rushed to the nearby hospital, but was pronounced dead on arrival. A Cell phone is a very useful modern invention. However, we must be aware that it can also be an instrument of death. Never use the cell phone while it is hooked to the mains! FORWARD THIS TO THE PEOPLE THAT MATTER IN YOUR LIFE, I JUST DID! Take care ! 11月16日 ﾟ･✿.｡.:*[]~(￣▽￣)~* 怎么没人呢？*.:｡✿*ﾟ
Quote []~(￣▽￣)~* 怎么没人呢？ ﾟ･✿.｡.:*如何保養你的手機*.:｡✿*ﾟ1.大家是否常常會遇到手機螢幕有刮痕而不知如何處理的情況呢？ 更神奇的事 ....再用乾淨的抹布或衛生紙擦乾淨後..手機螢幕還會變得更亮哦 .... ﾟ･✿.｡.:* 幸福原来是这么一回事*.:｡✿*ﾟ
ﾟ･✿.｡.:* 《錯過一時，錯過一生》*.:｡✿*ﾟ《錯過一時，錯過一生》
http://ngszeli.net/ngszeli/love/miss/ ﾟ･✿.｡.:*願你找到屬於你的愛情*.:｡✿*ﾟ
~楷齡~
這一生，你可能會遇到許多喜歡你的人 但是，你可能永遠都遇不到一個你真正愛的人 所以，一但遇到了，一定要好好的把握。 很多事情，錯過了就沒有了，錯過了就是會變的，緣分也是一樣 ﾟ･✿.｡.:*一种幸福是让你不顾一切的爱一个人*.:｡✿*ﾟ
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喜欢一个人，在一起的时候会很开心
爱一个人，在一起的时候，会莫名的失落
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